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[lwoodbloo]

Ah, anger, thy name is elwood.

Men use love to get sex.

Women use sex to get love.

And that combination is corrosive.

The girl thinks that by making the boy come, he's going to stay with her. And Everything Else points to boy using girl's feelings to allow for his getting his rocks off. And why doesn't she walk? Because for some reason, she doesn't want to lose him. But what she doesn't realize is, she's already lost him. He's gone. He just hasn't left yet. Maybe he has already.

I hope I haven't violated a trust by writing this. But there are no names, no accusations.


It's much nicer to be angry than depressed, though. Tell you that much.

Comments

[moobie.livejournal.com]

Hey, sometimes I just use sex to get sex. ;)

[lwoodbloo.livejournal.com]

*laughs* very nice. Thanks for lightening the mood, Moobs.

How's the cheese?

[moobie.livejournal.com]

Hey, it's in my job description. Hee.

The cheese is good. Very good.

[lwoodbloo.livejournal.com]

Glad to hear it. A long time in coming, in my opinion. One steady guy, that is. *hugs*

[randomwriter.livejournal.com]

That is exactly what I was going to say.

*wonders if you are mind reader*

[lwoodbloo.livejournal.com]

I hear you, T.

I just see way too many women walk into things like they've got the magic pussy, like giving it up is going to make this guy stay or fall for them.

I'm totally cool with sex for sex's sake...as long as you don't make any promises that you have no intention of keeping. Besides the "I'm going to fuck you until you cry" thing. I really don't WANT her to cry. ;)

[randomwriter.livejournal.com]

I know this isn't what you meant but...

I know several women that would get very turned on if I said "I'm gonna' fuck you until you cry!" and then do it.

ha ha


You are right though. I am in permanent no-relationship status right now. I have too much to do and my life and goals are too important to share with someone else in any deep and meaningful way. If I engage in a sexual relationship with someone I make it very clear what I want and that I want that only. How they react to that is their problem.

[lwoodbloo.livejournal.com]

1) You must introduce me to these women. *laughs* Dude, I really need to come and visit memphis. if only just to meet all the cool people on LJ i know there now! :)

2) I like that you're forthright. If you knew, however, that someone was into you and wanted to sleep with you, would you go through with it, even if you knew that person would be upset by it? I mean....I'd have to hesitate.

[randomwriter.livejournal.com]

1.)You should visit our little hellhole we call home sometime.

2.)I'd like to think that I would do the right thing if from the very start I knew she wanted more than sex. However, sex is my great weakness. Maybe I'd be an asshole by saying up front "this is just sex and that is all" and still do it when she agreed to those terms even though I know she wanted more BUT I don't screw children and an adult woman should be able to make that decision and decide if it is worth the hurt. It's one thing if I am chasing her for sex with the knowledge that she wants more but if she is coming on to me and I am as honest as I can be about it then to me she is just a bit of a masochist.
Remember, panties aren't the best thing in the world but they are right next to it. ;-)

[lwoodbloo.livejournal.com]

T, you remind me how much I like hanging out with "the guys".

[randomwriter.livejournal.com]

I know what you mean bro. I lost almost all of my good male friends and just now found some cool guys to hang out and be a dude with. It is very de-stressing.

[toreeena.livejournal.com]

You mean I'm not the only one with a magic pussy?

[lwoodbloo.livejournal.com]

Look, if you're talking about the "Wow, look where I produced a quarter from" trick, that's NOT what I was talking about, chica.


And you never commented on my story. :-P

[violet-shade.livejournal.com]

And sometimes women use love to get love ^_~
Maybe that's just me. Mr. Dewey always did like to tell me I was the exception, not the rule.

[lwoodbloo.livejournal.com]

I'm kinda describing one such situation.

But I've seen this happen more than once. And it does NOT make me happy, especially when I have affection for the young lady in question. And no. I don't want her that way.

[violet-shade.livejournal.com]

Yeah, I understand. I've seen way too many relationships that just pissed me off because it was bad for the people in them.
Not that I'm above having had a relationship that was stupid, but it was stupid for other reasons.

if this is about me:

[tink-loves-bell.livejournal.com]

my post wasn't about sex actually and i'm not trying to "get love." i have copious amounts of love from friends and family etc. not only that, i am confident. don't ever assume what is in the confines of my heart, my feelings are my own and usually kept secret. you assume i am afraid of losing someone, i'm not. sorry.

and he could get sex from anywhere he wanted to. it's a using situation from both sides when it comes to sex.

in the end it's my decession on what happens and no one elses. i am fully capable of fucking up and cleaning up my own life. i'm not upset with you for posting this, only a little surprised that my life has made other peoples' journals.

and you don't have to understand my motives since they are too are my own.

and i do get angry, but i am not a person to let others take advantage of my good nature.

thanks for being concerned though.

Re: if this is about me:

[lwoodbloo.livejournal.com]

Not really, no.

Moreso about someone else.

Your situation does piss me off, but this isn't about ya, janie jones.

*hugs*

[helenangel.livejournal.com]

The girl thinks that by making the boy come, he's going to stay with her

BWAHAHAHAHAAHAH! Hey, at least THIS girl learned the hard way that sex is sex and that's ALL it is. It's a completely and totally separate entity from love. I will preach my message to my sisters and try to help them install "the switch." You know, that magical switch that all men have that lets them turn their emotions off and on. It's not just for men anymore! :)

[lwoodbloo.livejournal.com]

I don't much like that generalization. But then, I'm not like most guys.

[elordais.livejournal.com]

As for that last comment:

Yeah...it is, cause anger burns out. Depression just lingers.

[violetshade.livejournal.com]

It's also directed outwards rather than inwards.

[gakkuri.livejournal.com]

hey! you joined my community! thanks! this post tells me a lot...it tells me you need to help me get my community going with views like this!

[lwoodbloo.livejournal.com]

I joined your comm for what it seems are different reasons than most of your members. I may not be what you think I am. Keep that in mind.

[gakkuri.livejournal.com]

hmmm...what do you mean you may not be what I think you are? if you feel you don't have the same views, it could be a problem to join, don't you agree?

[gakkuri.livejournal.com]

I mostly care because this is a sensitive topic for the ladies in this community; it's a therapy for us, and I wouldn't want to jeapordize that.

[lwoodbloo.livejournal.com]

I am anti.

I'm not anti porn, but I am anti SG. I'll explain later.

[gakkuri.livejournal.com]

Okay. There's a few people that don't mind porn here; they prefer "positive" porn that is not meant to be degrading (if that exists). They're here because they have a problem with glamorizing depression, suicide, cutting, etc. I think I understand. Check out radioroxie's post. She's not totally against porn either. I am, but that's just me...