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Apr. 21st, 2003 10:43 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
lwoodblooMatt's Rant of the Day
Yeah, I haven't written one of THESE for a while. More's the better, methinks. I haven't
had anything to be really pissed off about.
Why is it that women act the way they do? Why is there no way to reliably
predict how they're going to act?
Just stop reading now if you get pissed at hearing what I think.
So, I don't get why certain behaviors manifest themselves. Such as, why would you tell me
that you feel a certain way about me when you have someone already in your life who you
feel very close to, someone who is not an "internet boy". Jeez, proof yet again that I need
to go out and meet more people. There are days I feel like this closet monster that you can't
take out unless there are no other options. I'm there for when there's no one else, I'm
internet boy, and then and only then am I acceptable company. I can't apologize for where I
am. In fact, I'm quite happy to be in queens, and if you aren't here, there's not much I
can do. I understand that yes, there are many reasons not to be whatever. But where does
that leave me? Alone. Again.
And that's just two. There are others. One specific other. She doesn't write for months at
a time, so at that point, I figure that she doesn't want to chat anymore. Fine, no biggy,
SO she comes on last night and tells me off, about this is why she doesn't message me anymore,
that I don't write back and whatnot...I was on the phone for no more than five minutes or so,
and when I came back, I got this vitriol from her. I explained that I thought she didn't
want to chat anymore. We discussed it for a while, and then she just finally said that
she'd give me what I wanted, that she'd not talk to me anymore. This was NOT what I wanted
but I didn't get a chance to say that. *sighs*
Let's not get into women from elsewhere. Actually, maybe I ought to. Why is it that women
from elsewhere, who I may never meet, are friendlier and more enjoyable company? Is it
because there isn't any pressure to meet up? But even so, like in the case of LadyJendifi,
things were just smoother.
What I need to do is
Get out more
Meet more people
Get off the net
Yeah. Real simple. Like quitting smoking.
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Date: 2003-04-21 08:20 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-04-21 08:24 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-04-30 07:34 am (UTC)GOOD TO see you feeling a bit better. Let's get a cuppa one of these days, awright?
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Date: 2003-04-30 09:58 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-04-21 08:53 am (UTC)a time, so at that point, I figure that she doesn't want to chat anymore. Fine, no biggy,
SO she comes on last night and tells me off, about this is why she doesn't message me anymore,
that I don't write back and whatnot...I was on the phone for no more than five minutes or so,
and when I came back, I got this vitriol from her. I explained that I thought she didn't
want to chat anymore. We discussed it for a while, and then she just finally said that
she'd give me what I wanted, that she'd not talk to me anymore. This was NOT what I wanted
but I didn't get a chance to say that. *sighs*
Sounds like she's craving attention. If you do want contact w/her...email her saying what u said here...that she doesn't contact you for months at a time...so you thought she didn't want contact. Tell her that you appologize for making an incorret assumption, and would like *insert here* with her. :)
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Date: 2003-04-21 09:13 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-04-21 03:56 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-04-21 09:45 pm (UTC)predict how they're going to act?
'Cause otherwise we'd be SO BORING. ;P
Seriously, though...I am sorry you are feeling (with good reason) like you've been treated like crap. *BIG HUGS*
(Even if you did call me a dork...heehee...)
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Date: 2003-04-21 09:46 pm (UTC)Re:
Date: 2003-04-22 05:38 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-04-21 10:44 pm (UTC)Re:
Date: 2003-04-22 06:14 am (UTC)But you are not here....which is upsetting, so I seek the companionship of those less suitable than moon_beam.
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Date: 2003-04-22 08:07 am (UTC)Re:
Date: 2003-04-22 08:16 am (UTC)*hugs*
How's your day, moon?