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[lwoodbloo]

The thing I enjoy least in the world is being fucked with.
sattruckguy can attest to the fact that I've turned down almost sure sex with a young lady because I was wary of that. Because it's happened so many times.

Fact: I am not tall.

Fact: I am not "hot".

Fact: I do not dress as well as I could.


Maybe I should include these things on my dating resume so I can date less. Yeah. That'd be good.

Fuck. FUCK. FUCKITY FUCK.

Comments

[panthergirl5182.livejournal.com]

hmmm in my experience, a lot of this comes down to how you feel about yourself. *hugs*

i agree, getting fucked with sucks.

[scriptgirl.livejournal.com]

Who's fucking with ya? Lemme beat 'em up!

[lwoodbloo.livejournal.com]

I love you SO much right now, babes.

[scriptgirl.livejournal.com]

:)

[queencrckt.livejournal.com]

You put too much emphasis on "tall" "hot" and "dressed well."

Good partners fall in love with your heart.





And your damn sexy voice, but thats another story entirely.

[sisterred.livejournal.com]

AMEN.

[nemesisbecoming.livejournal.com]

Seconded, and stated extremely well.

Although it IS rough "out there" perhaps your being hung up on the external is what is limiting your dating prospects.

I feel, and again this is my measly $0.02, your anxiety over how someone would think of you physicially is being carried out when you talk with them and ultimately meet them. If you act like there's something wrong with how you look or dress, that will be emphasized by your demeanor and lack of confidence - it then actually becomes an issue. Although trite, the concept of "love thyself first" rings very true when putting yourself out there. And besides, all is not most of what you think is problematic is workable. Granted you can't throw an extra foot on your stature, but why should you? Like the Queen says, it's your heart, not your height. "Hot" is subjective. "Dressed well" is easily changeable. It's obvious from your flist and from knowing you persoanlly that people do like you and care for you. And you don't want someone superficial anyways. And open heart and an open mind will open up your opportunities - that goes both ways, trust me.

And if you keep this whole "i'm not what a chick is looking for" crap, I'ma slap you silly - I'm from Harlem, we slap people on principle!

[lwoodbloo.livejournal.com]

Nem, I get the feeling that you slap a fool just for living. And now I have proof.

[phoenixsong]

I'm not tall, either. Neither do I think of myself as particularly "hot."

Let me just say, I have never, ever fallen for someone based on appearance. Smart is sexy in my book. Matt is smart, and Matt is definitely sexy.

[sattruckguy.livejournal.com]

*looks around and makes sure lite doesn't see his sweetie calling anohter guy "sexy". ;)

[ihave-themoon.livejournal.com]

well i dont want to date people who want to date people for how tall they are, how hot they are or how they dress, so why would you?

i only want to date people for how they think and make me think
how they smile and make me smile
how they laugh and make me laugh

tall hot people who dress well are too concerned with how tall, hot and well dressed they are to do anything outside of themselves.

[keptwords.livejournal.com]

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[lwoodbloo.livejournal.com]

Yes yes.

I Know. I'm funny.

But the 7:30 show is completely different from the 9:00. Just so you know.

Try the chicken, it's delicious.

[tikva.livejournal.com]

....people are supposed to be tall?

Whoops.

[lite.livejournal.com]

Some of us were naturally born that way :)

[phoenixsong]

On behalf of your mother, might I just say, OW!

[kittenhasclaws.livejournal.com]

"Hot" is so subjective. You are someone's "hot." You are several people's "hot," that I know of right at this moment.

You're a Zevon fan, for crying out loud. You're one of the smartest people I have the privelage of calling a friend. You've got a sense of humor and charm. And they are right about the voice, y'know.

If someone doesn't think you're tall enough, hot enough, or dressed well enough, then I don't think they are worthy of you gracing them with your presence.

I think the earlier comment someone made about you projecting the image that you think you're not good enough is dead on. I know I am not one to be talking, but confidence speaks volumes. You have to show people that you know you are worthy of their affections, and it will come much easier.

Love ya.

[sattruckguy.livejournal.com]

*smack*

no, you are not tall, you qualify as cute and snuggly.

no, you are not hot, see above.

no, you don't dress as well as you could, but do any of us? that's why women want men to take them to really nice places, so we have an excuse to dress up.

Fact: you are an interesting guy with a wide range of knowledge who loves to have interesting conversations with strange people.

Fact: i've watched you strike up conversation with total strangers, and have deep conversations with them.

Fact: when you're not being self conscious of yourself, you are a great person to be around, and everyone loves being with you.

Fact: you get more phone numbers from total strangers then I ever have, or ever could (see the last 3 facts for the reason).

Fact: the beatings will have to be renewed until morale imporoves.

[sisterred.livejournal.com]

Fact: the beatings will have to be renewed until morale imporoves.

Can I watch?

[sattruckguy.livejournal.com]

watch? you can join in! the more the merrier! everyone, line up! time to abuse lwood!!!!

[sisterred.livejournal.com]

Sweet. I'm so there. :-)

[torontoangel.livejournal.com]

Dude, you are so right about all of this. Res - you are such an incredible person that you come to mind on random whims of thought and stay there. As for our friend's comment about women wanting to go to nice places - damn straight we like to see men dressed up! Outside can be changed - inside, that's what's muy importante. So laugh, smile, talk, be cute and cuddle and some chickie will fall into your lap. Prolly literally.

[peterthesoso.livejournal.com]

Hang in there, buddy. I don't consider myself tall, hot or well-dressed either.

[the-twilek.livejournal.com]

hey, dont beat yourself up for fuckin shortness. italian chicks LOVE short guys! seriously, i wont never date someone above 5'6 cuz id have to strain my neck just to fuckin look at him. and dressen bad aint the worst thing in the world, afterall, girls dont want no metrosexuals. sloppyness is a sigh of masculinity, as long as it aint to the extreme.

and girls love personality for real, it aint all about looks anyway.

[lwoodbloo.livejournal.com]

*laughs*

Thanks.